I am just getting over the hump. I have been single for a full two months.
Saturday was hard for me. Real hard. I wanted to go out dancing, have a party, celebrate. I had a lot to celebrate my couch had just come – its beautiful, bonded leather. Yeah thats all I had to celebrate but I think its a good reason. I got a new couch! LOVE IT ! LOVE IT! LOVE IT! I’m digressing , but its my blog, and your my reader so let me focus.
OK so I had one reason to celebrate but I decided to assess my feelings. Why did I want to really go out? Turns out I wanted to meet a cute man. I just wanted a man to hit on me. Not good I say. Not good. So I picked up a novella ( aka romance book ) settled into my new cotton satin sheets and devoured the book. That people is progress! When you are dedicated on your goal to being single and not going to do something that you love- dancing- in the name of advancing your self.
But alas…. there is always drama… and confusion. So two exes on mine – days apart like one on saturday, on one sunday said to me – ” We need to talk”.
I know that this is a stereotype but aren’t women the ones supposed to say ” we need to talk”. I hate it when men say that coz its so vague. And if you know anything about men they will give you the “we need to talk” line and not go further into it until they are ready. I hate suspense, I just can not be left hanging. So now I am in a state of what the hell is going on. Not one person but two. What could they want to talk about?
Its insane. Insane I tell you.
I’m waiting for today to be over – conversation 1 should be happening by the end of today. Tomorrow conversation 2.
What’s a girl to do??? How do men cope when women give them the whole ” we need to talk line”??
11 November, 2009 at 1:18 am
Aish! Telling me we need to talk, then waiting a whole day (even waiting a whole hour) is killing me. I’ll go crazy guessing what it’s about. Not just boys btw, I told my Mum to never do that (she had this thing of ‘there’s something I want us to talk about next week’).
Say you need to talk, then sit down and talk.
14 November, 2009 at 3:02 am
I really hate those three words … “we need to talk” … what we heard is
“there are a couple of things to blame you about!”
“I need to vent”
“You are in soo much trouble”
… but when we pull that line, maybe we have regrets, may be we need to come clean, may be we need a shag! we are simple like that!
15 November, 2009 at 1:06 pm
Kellie- LOL at your mum… my dad says that but then he can never hold it in. and what he does is just like spring on u at the most inopportune moments.
Hmmm yeah I get all suspenseful when men say that, and I hate suspense.
@ Wamz>… LOL if you need a shag why dont u just say that?! LOL! I can see the regret thing